"When u hurt ppl, they begin to love u less. That's what careless words and or  actions do.  they make ppl love u a little less"

- The God of Small Things by Arundhati Roy

The love that brings us pain should be the same love that would heal our hearts. When you love so much that it begins to hurt, then you have to learn to let go to lessen your pain. Love hurts, and sometimes it hurts like there is no tomorrow. But there still is and there will always be one. No matter how battered and stricken we have been, there will always be a tomorrow that will bring hope and love. But that tomorrow will never come unless we leave the past behind and live today as we should.

Let the pain remain for a while and let the tears fall as they please. Then after all that, move on and find your place in this world where you will feel that everything is going to be all right.

-- exchanged through outlook in the office  from susan

And those who have never been wounded in love will never be able to say: “I have lived”. Because they haven’t."

-Paulo Coelho's Warrior of the LIght Online Newsletter

"Women are like apples on a tree.  The best ones are at the top.  Men dont want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt, so they just settle for the rotten apples beneath, not so good but easy to get.

Then the apples on the top think something is wrong with them when in reality they are amazing.  They just have to wait for the right guys to come, those who are brave enough to climb the tree all the way to the top, not scared to take a fall."

got this message from a very good friend, Ryan Parawan, who nver fails to send me sms on love, life and hope.

hope u like it